How would a girl with a gay father figure turn out!?
I have always heard that the father figure a girl has while growing up influences her relationships with men,so my question is how would having a gay or effeminate father figure affect a girl,would she be attracted to feminine guys only or guys she could easily control?Anybody in a situation like this or has experienced this please tell your story.Thanks
However she wanted to. What an adult does that you have no control over has nothing to do with you or your life or your future goals. Your life is what you make it and should not have anything to do with a so called role model. You can choose a role model that you admire, for yourself, it does not have to be a father or mother figure, It should be someone that has good qualities and moral values that are similar to your own. Choosing a man or significant other should be based on the qualities you admire in a person, it should not be based on how your mother and father were or are. If your father were a drunkard, would you want to look for a man with those qualities? If your father were a wife beater, would you want to find a man with those qualities? As an adult you should know right from wrong and you should know what you want and expect for yourself. Lead your own life and don't allow anyone to influence you to the point that you pattern yourself after the wrong things. You should learn from the mistakes of those around you, so you don't make the same mistakes or pattern yourself to be like them. Especially if you dislike what you are seeing or experiencing. You can only control you, not others. Make the right decisions and reap the rewards. Make the wrong decisions and suffer the consequences. It's your life we are talking about, so make the most of it, and don't rely on the actions of others to make it for you.